There Is A Limit To Almost Everything.

...the truth.. what is it?  ...I agree that people have differing opinions of what is true.. and what is not.. but in the grand scheme of things.. it doesn't matter what I think.. or what anyone else thinks.. something either is.. or it is not.. me saying so.. or thinking so doesn't make something real.. or true.. neither does someone else.. I know that opinions have varying shades of grey.. or things can change into something real.. but at any given moment.. things are a certain way.. and while we would like to make things fit our idealistic universe, we have to change our perception of things to do that... it's why so many of us get screwed over time after time.. we make excuses to believe a certain way.. or think certain things.. I suppose I do that at times myself.. it helps me to make sense of the way things are.. I'm not always right.. but more often than not.. it seems to turn out that way... so I go with the odds.. I thought a long time ago.. that I could read people.. and know if they are sincere or not.. but I realize that I don't have that characteristic.. People can be just as they are... and believe me.. EVERYONE has a tendency to lie when it suits them.. even myself.. I am trying to keep from doing that.. but even so.. sometimes I still lie by omission... All people have the capability to be bitches or bastards... and some people are more involved in being that way than others.  I don't want to point the finger at anyone and say they are lying.. but if something doesn't sit well with you.. if you think something isn't right.. then it probably isn't.. of course most people tend to turn a blind eye toward most anything they want to be true... People choose to think the best of people.. just because they hate to be disappointed again.. then they are surprised when it turns out that person is just like anyone else.  Well.. YES.. most people have the same characteristics..and it's so easy for any of us to fall into the negative characteristics we surround ourself with.. that's why I'm not online anymore at the sites I frequented.. nor will I be... there was too much negative social interaction.. and I was always sucked into it. Sooner or later people always take on the characteristics of their surroundings.. that's why I will never be able to completely trust anyone in the online world.. I will offer a degree of trust to some who earn it.. but there is a limit to almost everything.

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