Because It Is The Truth.

Some things that I thought about lately... If you are online and want to live a fantasy.. then don't be surprised when someone lies to you.. it's either real.. or it isn't.. and believe me.. most online isn't real.. whether you say it is or not..  If you think you are special.. you probably are..  but so is everyone else.. we're all unique in our own way.. and just because someone gives you  attention.. doesn't mean that they aren't giving attention to several other people as well.  If you want to believe in a lie.. then go ahead.. that's your prerogative.. but don't be so amazed to find out that it really was a lie in the first place.  If someone says that you're only friends.. and then does things that suggests otherwise.. then it's probable that their idea of friendship.. and your idea is completely different... If you are holding things in and cannot disclose them to someone you call your very close friend.. then they aren't as close as you might think.. and if you can't tell someone the honest truth.. there is no reason to call them any kind of friend.. because things get based on lies and deception.. I will be the first to admit that I have tricked myself into thinking certain things.. based on what I wanted to believe... but that didn't make it any more real just because I wanted it to be.

I know this sounds like a negative blog at the moment.. but I am not aiming it anyone in particular.. just ideas that have bounced around under my hat for the past few weeks.  If you think anything I blog.. applies to you.. well. it probably does.. whether I was thinking of anyone when I wrote it or not... if you see yourself when you read something.. then you already know it applies to you.. Whether I do or not..  is not even an issue. Most people get upset when they hear the truth if it applies to them.. it's human nature to be defensive.. I have realized that the truth is the truth.. and no amount of wishing it weren't.. will change that.. People can live with their heads in the sand.. and ignore the signals that life sends them on a regular basis.. or they can sit up and take notice of their life.. and decide to actually live it... instead of letting it be run by other people.  Have a backbone!! ...show that you are going to be real.. there is too much deception in life as it is... without adding more and more to it.  Most people are going to read this.. and they will think of someone else without even considering themselves... but I read it.. and I remember the times that this has applied to me.. which has been more often than I care to admit..  but I will admit it.. because it is the truth.