Water Under The Bridge.

Opinions are like assholes.. everyone has one... and most of us think that most of them stink.. The thing is.. it's okay not to share the same opinion as someone else. That's what makes us all unique... but don't try to get to me to believe something just because you do.. or you'll wind up facing a lot of resistance.  I had a conversation recently about what constitutes "cheating"  ....my idea is extremely simple .. if you are with someone.. and you do something you feel you need to hide... you've just cheated.. You know it too.. deep down.. or you wouldn't feel the need to hide it.. because you haven't done anything wrong.  Have I cheated?... of course I have!! ...I would be lying to everyone including myself if I didn't admit it.  I don't feel guilty about it.. because I don't have a relationship worthy of making me feel that much guilt. Have I cheated on anyone I have had strong feelings of more than friendship for?  no.. I can honestly say that I haven't.. not even with my spouse.. she is a friend only.. and has been for a long time now.  I know that I have made this blanket statement.. and there may be an exception to this rule.. but I really don't see one. I am okay with all the actions I have made.. because I feel justified in making them.. I just should have been more selective in some of my choices... but that's all water under the bridge.