Freedom Of Privacy

Sometimes I wonder if there is any sort of plan to life in general.  I mean.. I know there are things we are supposed to do.. they're laws.. In a religious sense, everyone has a Bible.. or other book of religious guidelines.. but everything is so vague. I suppose that's why we all have free will.  For the most part, I get irritated when I'm strictly dictated to do something.. and it might even be something I would do if only asked.  ...like wearing seat belts.. I think it's a wonderful idea.. even though I never touched a seat belt until I was in my late 20's.. we just never thought about using them.. but now the government comes along and says.. yes.. we know it's your vehicle... but if you don't strap yourself in, then we're going to fine you. I love doing things for people.. I enjoy being safe.. but I've always disliked being required to stay over at work because someone told me I had to.. but if they ask me.. I'm generally first to volunteer.  I suppose it's a control issue.  I like being in control of my life.. as much as I can anyway.. because there is so much about my life where I have no control, whatsoever. I'm counted on at work by my co-workers, because they all know I am one of the most dependable people there.. and if they ask me to do something.. I'm usually available to help out.. but the moment someone tries to commit me to something without my ability to say no ... even though I probably wouldn't under normal circumstances.. I get very annoyed.  I still don't get angry with people.. maybe that's my problem.. I almost never get.. angry.. yes.. I know I do sulk sometimes.. and I'm trying to work on that.. but I think it's much better if I just get out some of all the stuff I keep pent up inside of me.. I just don't want to misdirect it at someone who doesn't deserve it.  There are a lot of things that I choose to focus inward.. but a few things I've become outspoken on..  The sites for example.. I learned a long time ago.. that anything posted on the internet.. can be seen by more than one person.. even emails.. supposed to be private.. can always be intercepted by our ISP and opened.. even if they are password protected.. it just takes having the right program installed.  The sites I visited.. I know without a doubt that all the supposedly private messages on the sites can be opened and read by the administration... recent events have taken place that support what I've known all along.... and the abuse of people in power is just one of those things that should never come as a shock.. even though it can be a disappointment. It was another reason I left the sites.. not that I ever said anything that if someone asked.. I would disclose if it dealt with that person... but for someone to take away my freedom of privacy is another thing that I would have to place highly on my aggravation list.  I've never meant to be anything but an open book.. I have no problem disclosing personal parts of my life to most people.. but the fact that someone can violate my private thoughts and actions without my permission is somewhat upsetting.  I know this isn't anything new.. in fact the sites were doing this for a long time.. and now I know that it's not just one site... but both sites I frequented are guilty.. fine.. it's just another thing that makes me glad I'm no longer a part of that membership.  Even though I will open up and disclose just about everything about myself.. I like having the freedom of privacy.