Such is life

I try to convence myself that I won't think about her.. that I can let her go. ...but how do you let go someone that you still love so much.  I try not to believe  in love... but so many of my thoughts go back to her.... wondering what she's doing.. if she's happy.. if everything is ok.  I can't help but care.  We went through a lot together.  To stop caring for her... is an impossibility. I see her in songs I hear.. in sights I see.. even in my thoughts.  I guess the song "Not over you" that I posted awhile back.. still fits totally.  I think if I ever loved anyone.. it is her.  So.... how do you stop loving someone that doesn't love you back.  ...I haven't figured out how to do that yet. I am not sure I ever will. I sometimes get tempted to log in.. or contact her.  ...but I know that's not what she needs.  I will just be where I'm not wanted. I won't pursue her anymore.. ever.  She's always known where I am.. and she elects not to contact me. ...so I will continue to try to make it through each day.  It's not getting any easier.. even with the support of a friend talking me through my darkest times.  I can't seem to pull myself out of a relationship that no longer exists.. at least in her eyes.  I know that the most obvious course of action would be to give up... but my mind won't let me.  My heart.. what little of it is left.. won't give up caring for someone who doesn't want or need me anymore.  ...and I just don't know what to do about it.  Such is life.

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  1. AnonymousOctober 24, 2011 at 8:19 AM

    It won't let me post under my google ID. But I wanted you to know that I was here and I'm sorry that today is a bad day for you. I wish you'd have a good day....you need a good one. You WILL be OK. - JaG

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