It just happens.

I love my morning bath... it's like I am washing all the crap off from the past.. and starting each day anew.. I feel like there is sometimes a lot of crap I'm exposed to.  It's amazing how full of crap some people are. I had someone make a post yesterday that I responded to.. both posts got modded... I understand sort of.. why.. it was confrontational behavior... and the site I'm on.. doesn't like public confrontation.. The problem is.. I still can't see where I did anything wrong except make what I felt to be a funny comment. I gave someone rep and said..in response to his "I won't join the collective"  ...."We are Borg, you shall be assimilated"  Well.. I live and learn.. some people are just hyper-sensitive.  I'm also supposed to stay away from "his people" ...I hope there is a list somewhere as I don't have a clue as to who his people are... I can guess 3... so I will avoid those.. other than that.. it'll be hit and miss. Strange.. I've never had any type of issue before with public problems. Now.. a new day has started.. and I'm about to wash off the stench of yesterday.. and go forth with a new outlook. The past is something that should be just that... over...  I spend too much time worried about what other people think...
the posts went something like this (Keeping in mind that my nick is Special K):
Dear X

I don't like cereal for breakfast. I don't like hidden messages in the form of reputation comments. I don't like your attempts on some really good women here. And I really don't like you messing with my people.

I'm serving notice that the old way of doing business at flirting sites is done. Women deserve respect. Kindness. Authentic communication of intentions with boundaries present, in order to maintain a safe place for everyone involved. What you do privately I will broadcast publicly

my response:


Dear X,


Go ahead... I have nothing to hide... When I rep people it's because I find their comments genuinely interesting... to get all butthurt over me saying "We are borg... you will assimulated" to your "I will not join the collective" was ...in my opinion, humorous. I have no desire to push any boundaries and will continue to be myself.. because it's all I can be... I mean no disrespect to anyone.. do what you must... I say this here because you've made it clear you don't want anything private.... and I will try to make a point to steer clear of your "people"



 I really don't plan on being antagonistic.. unfortunately.. it just happens.

Comments

  1. Killer44May 15, 2012 at 3:43 PM

    SpecialK I heard he did that sorry chap He did it to me to a few weeks ago. and to LMT too. The man needs to find another site where he can "play" or think he can play King. If he keeps this up I will have a talk with the mods and have other complain too. He is just a little chicken in a big hen house and the faster he realizes that the better!

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  2. SpecialKMay 15, 2012 at 5:26 PM

    I have no problem with him.. still don't.. he can be what he wants.. and it won't change who I am. I thank you for your words.. but let him "play King" I don't define who I am by his standards.. nor will I change my behavior for him... or anyone else. I like who I am.

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