The Truth Always Does.

All our lives we work toward something.. most of us are working to get more financially secure... some of us just want emotional stability. some just want to enjoy life and what it has to offer. There is no way that we can determine how our life is going to go.. because outside influences cannot be accounted for.  We can plan all we want.. but people are fickle.. I've said this before... and because there is so much inconsistency in the thoughts and actions of some others.. we can't base our happiness on them.. we have to watch for ourselves the actions we take.. we have to be prepared to be disappointed many times in life... but we also need to figure out exactly what it is we want.. and stick with it.. because if a person keeps changing their goals... they will almost certainly never meet them.  I've said before that most people don't have a clue what they really want.. that's one of the reasons that people are never happy for long periods of time.  I've been lucky enough to allow my mind not to get on that roller coaster... when I say something... I try to think about my words and their impact on others... but for the most part... I'm still going to say whatever it is I'm thinking anyway.. because this is a part of who I am.. yes.. it's gotten me in trouble in the past... I have pushed people out of my life with my words.. I have made people want to walk away... but out of all the things I have said.. every bit of it was the truth...  I haven't ever walked away from anyone... but my pushing has caused several to walk away from me.. which must be a good thing.. because those that offense at the words I use.. and walk away... don't need to be in my life anyway.  I will continue to be me.. I say that more than enough times.. I will continue to say what is on my mind.... those that aren't prepared for that can brace themselves already... because it will come out in the end.. the truth always does.