You Know What They Say About Assuming.

I'm pretty stoked about having my own house now... but at the same time... it's still not that big of a deal.  I don't think I'm going to get all that excited about anything... I've just developed the attitude that things will happen.. I'll deal with it in a good or bad way... and live the next day as it comes. I realized that I let my brain get too involved in my actions.. or reactions.. it is much simpler just to work things out as they happen instead of worrying about what could be.. or what might be... or even what is... I can't change what is.. but I have control over myself... I've said that several times in blogging.. and it's true.. I have friends that are miserable.. and I tell them.. you make yourself miserable... by your actions.. or inactions.. and I think I should heed my own advice.  I make myself worry about things that really aren't.. most things are just perceptions.. I need to choose to be happy.. and do what it takes to be that way... will it change?? ...sure.. and I'll still be open and honest to me as well as to others when those changes happen.. instead of hiding most of what I'm feeling... I'm getting pretty good at just throwing out there what is going through my brain...  One of these days I just might meet someone who is good at sharing thought processes... instead of being all mysterious and hiding what's going on inside her head... and that will be a good match for me.  I don't do passive... The only time I'm passive is when I'm trying to keep from being a complete asshole.. so I don't say exactly what's in my mind.. but for most people I don't care if they know what's going on up there.. I can't change what I'm thinking.. and I really don't have anything to hide.  I figure if I can find someone who can actually communicate her thoughts... then at some point.. I don't have to keep guessing and will instinctively know what's happening in her mind... That's the issue with most people ... they have this idea of what's going on ... or should happen.. then they get pissed because it doesn't happen.. or because they want this psychic link to magically appear and people to know what they want... THAT is passive.. Yes.. I'm a bit crude sometimes but I almost always say what pops in my head, and I'm impressed when people can do that... don't hold on to things to the point where you get irritated that the hint isn't picked up on... I might even be able to guess a lot of what a person is thinking.. and occasionally I'll joke about that... but if it's not said... I believe it's not for me to make assumptions.. you know what they say about assuming. 

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