A Beautiful Person.

I've always said this.. and I still firmly believe.. that a person isn't how they appear.. but who they are on the inside... people will spend so much time trying to alter their appearance... for what?  ...are they not satisfied with themselves?  Are they trying to impress someone?  I don't have a clue.. but what makes me sit up and take notice of someone.. is their ability to see people for who they really are.  Anyone can disguise themselves for a short period of time.. either in the way they look.. or the way they act... but that doesn't change who that person is on the inside. I guess what I'm trying to say is that deep down.. everyone has insecurities.. and everyone has faults.. and one person's imperfections isn't that much different than another person's. I accept my friends for who they are.. I don't like people to pretend to be something they are not.. nor do I like them to hide behind lies or falsehoods they dredge up to cover their actions.  I am a firm believer that a person's actions define who that person is.  We all tend to judge other people... I do the same thing.. and in turn, I am judged as well. I don't always agree with the thought processes of other people, but there are good things in everyone.. and I try to focus on the good...at least with my friends.. sometimes it's difficult to see if someone hurts you.. but time will tell who is sincere ... and who is full of shit. Yes.. I still maintain a high degree of caution when dealing with people... and I try not to just take everything that is said.. at face value.. but people will earn a bit more trust.. the more honest they are with me.. if someone tells me something I don't want to hear.. I might pull back... but it's much easier to deal with when people don't wait until thing have ballooned well out of proportion.  I've always thought.. it's much easier to lie... than to tell the truth.. but lies make people become ugly.. at least in my eyes.  True beauty lies inside... I  hope I can always maintain myself to be a beautiful person.

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