Things are as they are

So... I sit here in the testing facility... waiting for my students to finish testing. I'm using my phone to blog.. it hives me some peace.  My mind isn't completely here today.  I am thinking of how things could be so different.. if only I been more observant...more cynical.. it seems that most of my pain is caused when I put my trust in someone.  I am more than walled up. I am cemented. There is little hope of my walls coming down.  Anyone that chooses to interact with me will either deal with that.. or be sorely disappointed.  I sit and ponder different scenarios... what if I had done things differently.. but it makes no difference... things are as they are...

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